Becouse You Are Worth It...Pra😊

All my life I was made to believe that I wasn't worth much because I am dusky,thin, ugly and now these are just words not something that describes me.

It all started with opening myself up to new possibilities along the way I also learnt to knowledge the other parts of myself that are smart, creative, funny,kind and maybe even beautiful only then dusky,thin and ugly bcoz just what I am and not things that makes me undesirable. I realised that if I hadn't learnt to keep myself open to possibilities I would still have struggled with who I am.

It is dangerous to hold on to the identity that has been created for you or you create for yourself of what you should be, how you should be, who your boyfriend/ friend/husband should be,how your work should beand the other should be....

Rather than what you could be or

What you want to be.

This applies to almost everything,be it work, relationship or your beliefs. If you create an identity of yourself and marry yourself to that belief,it can be dangerous if isn't true for you.

It is okay if you want to change your passion or your friends or the way you dress and express yourself if that is true for you.

If you're decision change tommarow or five years from now. It is still okay. It is most horrible things to close yourself off and say i am going to stay this for the rest of my life even if it makes me unhappy.

We are all humans and we all change. Dare to accept yourself. Find the love for the person that you want to be.

Once I identify myself to be dusky,thin girl who should do what the society wants her to do.

Today I do not identify with any of above, have more confidence in myself and I do only what I believe in and I am also fine with the possibility of that changing again.

I still have bad days and they sucks but my goodbyes are definitely better. I am living my truth and I am certainly proud to be.