In another conversation with myself

How do you know that the person you are with is the right person for you? There is no right person on this planet. If you put your heart into something, something may become wonderful. Is it the right thing, there is no right thing Nobody ever found the right person anywhere..if you getting to that kind of unrealistic mindsets, I have found the right person!!!.. oh you will soon dis a ppointed. You must understand there is no right person. First thing is to see whether " I am the right person" Yes "am i the right person?"  And there are no right people on this planet. If you understand you have your nonsense,they have their nonsense. We can adjust nonsense to nonsense and go on. We must understand relationships are formed for various needs. There are physical needs, phychological needs, emotions needs, social needs, financial needs.. various kinds of needs... When you're going to somebody with so many needs you're going to be as a beggar, and begger can...

I was reading a Book called " The Rudest Book Ever". The first thing is caught my attention in this book is its title, why would any author name his book like this. It cames with a warning  which says read only if you are prepared to get your feelings hurt then I felt that this book has something unique to offer. So here are the points: 1. You are a product Even if you're a rich, genius, talented,good or strong, someday the world will exploit you and truble you. We are all product attached with hope that someday we will choose our Job, career, relationship and environment. And the better choices we make, the better product we are. But actually this is not what happens because all our lives we have only been through "what to think" and not "how to think". This is the reason we are stuck and remain stuck in our unnecessary problems. People who are taught "what to think" ask other people for solutions to their problems. But people are ta...

"Sometimes we have lose the battle to win the war." In order to 'win' which is to be happy we have to focus on our actual objectives in the big picture and not our emotions objectives in the heat of the moment. When we feel that someone is being unreasonable, it's natural for us to react with anger bcoz we want them to see how unfairly we are being treated and for them to admit for how wrong they are. But in the big picture is that important? Our emotions objectives in the heat of the moment saying YES.. FIGHT!! Stand up for what you believe in. When we focus on our actual objectives in the big picture, we'll realise that in order to properly stand up for urself which is to achieve what we want we have to handle the situation in a way that will put out the fire instead of stoking the flames. If we react negatively the other person is going to react even more negatively. And you're going to want to top that and so you're stoking each other and bo...