Mindsets For Growing And Positive Thinking

So I've got this ever-growing list of quotes and thoughts, and anytime I came across something that I find really inspiring, I write it down bcoz i have the memory of a goldfish.

I refer to it every time I need a boost of inspiration or just some motivation and I want to share some of my thoughts with you.

Especially the ones that have helped me to adopt more of positive mindset.

1.Focusing on possibility in place of limitations:🎯

We have all done this, saying I can't pick up that creative hobby because I'm not talented enough bcoz i just don't know how,or I'm not gonna go out and try making new friends coz I'm not likable or funny. When we tell others people or ourselves these things as if they are the absolute truth,we kind of start to believe them.

It was Gay Hendricks who said in his book the big leap, ( if I cling to the notion that something is not possible, I am arguing in favour of limitation). And if I agrue for my limitations I get to keep them. But if we were to instead argue in favour of our possibilities and we get to turn those possibilities into a reality.I think it's better to prove that we can do something than to try to reinforce that we can't.

It was George Bernard Shaw described inner struggle in this way.He said inside of me, there are two dogs. One of the dogs is mean and evil, the other dog is good. The mean dog fights the good one all the time. When asked which dogs wins he reflected for a moment and responded, the one I feed the most. It doesn't matter if we're feeding our limitations or feeding our possibilities. Whichever one is the one we feed is the one that wins.

2.Always ask why❓

You know,how kids are always so curious, they're always looking around them and asking the question why and it attempt to better understand the world around them. I think as adults its imp that we continue to ask the why question but more to understand the world that inside of us.

What is your why power? Why isn't more you want to eat more? Wholesome foods spend more time with friends or family, study degree,moved to city,when we don't know the answers to our strong enough. So we more susceptible to being influenced by someone else is why it was Gael Hyatt Who said (people lose there way when they lose their Y)

Why question really help us better understand our values and that can help us feel more confident and reassured whenever we're making any life choices.

3. Priorities creativity in play:💯

Elizabeth Gilbert said in his book big magic(If I'm not creating something then chances are I'm probably actively destroying something, Myself a relationship are my own peace of mind. I read this book and I was really busy working, studying, creative things coz I could do with my time better things.I've learned in this process is that we don't have to be great or even good at being creative we just need to do it.creativity help us think differently, problem solve differently it help us build confidence and resilience in different form writing, cooking, painting, dancing, singing, playing equipment... anything that feels like a unique form of self expression.anything that connect with inner child.

4. Small steps👣 lead to big changes✌️

We live in a culture that's full of things like crash diets, songs about getting rich quickly so we tend to want big results and we want them fast. But we also know that those quick and dirty strategies usually just bring us right back around to square one and sometimes even leave us force off than where we were began.

It was Darren Hardy who said in his book the compound effect (You will never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found bin your daily routine. Example I have started Insta page so I decided to create atleast five handmade crafts in a day so I could bulk up the page, you can imagine it was bit excessive to create thoese from scratch,so after just one or two, I was so tired I quit and didn't pick it up again for few months.we tent to do this in all areas like excercise,studing...coz it's a small things those realistic things done repeatedly that make the biggest differences.

 

5.Taking care of me for you❤️

We are social being and feeling that sence of connectedness that love and belonging it is so incredibly imp it feels good to laugh to feel her to feel that bond with somebody and so it can be become easy to start replying on others for our happiness. Sometimes we can't just sit n enjoy our own company for a few minutes without feeling that distraction.

It was Jim Rhon, who said I used to say( if you will take care of me.I will take care of you now,

Now I say I will take care of me for you if you will take care of you for me)

We feel the highs and lows that comes l with like and comments on our posts.We look to those things for our happiness and we look at those stats as a measure of our self worth.

But just like in physics relationship if we can learn the importance of taking some time away every so often to check in with ourselves to do things that makes us feel worthy without needing that external validation. I think when we can do that we can share more of our authentic selves we'll have more of ourselves to give.

I have shared these quotes and mindsets that I've picked up from TED talks,books and documentaries.