Why I'm loving turning 30

I am turning 30 on this 13th of August,which is just so crazy and it's just really funny to me that  people will be like oh my god you're turning 30 you're gonna be so old or how you feel about it are you depressed are you upset...its just kind of funny I laugh about it..
But at the end of the day I think there is some truth to it I think especially women we're very insecure about getting older,men are allowed to him get wrinkles and white hairs and stuff and it's handsome  but you know woman aren't supposed to age we're supposed to look 25 one more 55 which is like so unrealistic and I feel like we put pressure on ourselves and the idea of getting older like really freaks us out but  it's something that you can't control and I'm actually excited about turning 30.
Im trying to be positive about things and I feel like growing up with some awasome things instead of freaking out. Just embracing ourselves in our age and all the good thing that come with getting older.

So I wanted to share a list so that anybody out there turning 30....the things that you love about getting older and I'm appreciate and excited about the growing up process.

1.Self Confidence
I feel like the older I get the more confident I get I don't mean that in the way that like I'm just so amazing, I mean..my early teens my 20s I was just very conscious about looks, insecure unsure of myself.Getting older you kind of know who you are more and you embrace yourself for your flows and the good and the bad.I really love that about getting older and I hope that continues to get more and more.

2.Friendship
I'm the type of person that I had tons and tons of friends when I was younger, I was nice to everybody and tried to do things for everybody, sometimes you're too nice and you put yourself out there too much you get taken advantage of a lot. As I've gotten older I have fewer friends but they're truer friends.I don't want to waste my time on friendships that I know are not real.

3. Appreciation
I appreciate more what I have and I don't feel like material things are what brings happiness and you learn that as you go one.

4.More Fearless
Putting myself out there band I think that kind of comes with self confidence I always was afraid to try my best at things bcoz i don't want to fail I had a lot things when I was younger that I loved doing creativity,art I wanted to run a business.But i wasn't confident and as I've gotten older you kind of learned to care less about other people's approval and I wish I learned that lesson sooner bcoz you miss out on alot so definitely I've got as I've gotten older I've learned to just take risks don't let fear ruling your life and just go for it.

5. Slowing Down
Where I live everything is so fast paced and everybody is so rushed and sometimes we miss out on these little moments and it's so imp to slow down take a breath, little stop and enjoy the little simple things in life.spending time with your fam, eating dinner togather and not always rushing from one activity to the next.

6. Empathy / Not Judging

When you're younger you kind of everything for face values and if someone's being obnoxious you're just irritated with them and you kind of judge them. I feel like that you realise that people might just be having a bad day or maybe someone give you a Attitude or maybe they're going through something I think you're a little bit more understanding and less likely to jump on them about something bcoz your grown and learned from your own experiences that there's usually an underlying reason for someone acting a certain way.

7. Experience Over Things
Experiences are so much more imp than things. I realised so much stuff that I have..that I don't even care about or they don't even knew I didn't even remember that I had I'm just trying to clear everything out.You just realised how many things you buy and store and accumulate over the years.The stuff is not just imp. So I'm trying to more conscious of that now when I go to buy something, if you really love it that's one thing but I don't want to just buy coz it's sales and end up in box somewhere.Wasting that money much rather use it on a trip on experience or day out with my family or friends. So stuff is less imp.

8. Forgiving and Learning
I've gotten older I think you just forgive.Life is too short to just hold on to grudges and say it bothers you more than it bothers the person you're holding the grudges about you just let it eat away at you and irritate you and it just not healthy I much rather forgive and forget.

9.Health
Your body is a machine that keeps your mind alive. So you better make changes regarding the type of fuel you pour into it. You're 20s are your party year but as you near to 30.You should slowly wiser and start paying attention to what you eat and how much you drink,how to excercise in order to maximize your performance.

10.Only compitition or benchmark is yourself
As you get older you should stop camparing yourself to others, only benchmark against yourself,we all have your own path.Just bcoz all of your friends got married and they're having children doesn't mean you should as well especially if you're are not ready for a such a commitment.you should realise how fake social media is,and now allowed it to consume to so much of your time and life expectations, at the end of the day nobody is
Posting their bad days it's time to take yourself seriously start improving and seeking progress not perfection and you should be good.

11.Ask for what you want
Don't expect to happen on its own.
Just bcoz you wish something would happen doesn't mean it will the only way you to receive the things you wish for is by going after them and and getting them and getting them yourself. This doesn't stop at material things, you want to be happy, you're going to have to work for your happiness. You want a relationship that lasts and improves over time you'll have to put in the effects.You need to position yourself so you end up receiving whatever you're after.

12. Relating to my parents
When I was younger its easy to judge them based on decision that they made or I would never do that how dare they do this now as you get older you get it even you might not agree with doing the same thing or you wouldn't do the same thing. Bcoz working and providing for your family it is hard work so I appreciate them so much more.

13.Getting older means you're maturing, your making new experiences and finding yourself what so bad about that? Oh yes we get wrinkles .... buhhhh . If it's the wrost we think can happen to us,,we should really get a reality check.. beauty goes far beyond your appearance.Lets get rid of this Anti aging mindsets.

I am officially a mature and responsible adult. has the necessary wisdom to make important decisions in life.So Happy Birthday To Me!!!