The Truth Of The SoulMate

How do you know that the person you are with is the right person for you?

There is no right person on this planet. If you put your heart into something, something may become wonderful. Is it the right thing, there is no right thing Nobody ever found the right person anywhere..if you getting to that kind of unrealistic mindsets, I have found the right person!!!.. oh you will soon disappointed. You must understand there is no right person.

First thing is to see whether " I am the right person" Yes "am i the right person?"  And there are no right people on this planet.

If you understand you have your nonsense,they have their nonsense. We can adjust nonsense to nonsense and go on.

We must understand relationships are formed for various needs. There are physical needs, phychological needs, emotions needs, social needs, financial needs.. various kinds of needs...

When you're going to somebody with so many needs you're going to be as a beggar, and begger cannot choose. Beggar eats whatever comes his way., 

So if you really want to make choice in this world, first and foremost thing is you bring yourself to a place where your experience of life is just pleasant by yourself, you're wonderful.let us see what gets drawn to this one, if you really wonderful, things will happen in every way...in turms of marriage, relationship, career. The best will happen to you because you made yourself like this. 

Instead of trying to work on somebody and fix them if you work upon yourself and make you so wonderful that everybody wants to be with you,then there is a choice.

The soulmate thing.. there is a soulmate somewhere. God made just one person for you. But these days every year he keeps making one more person just for you 😂
Obiously god is making too many mistakes with you🤣
Body needs a mate, Maybe psychologically also you need a mate. Emotianally you need a mate understandable but soul doesn't need a mate, nor was the person made perfectly for you. This creation makes all kinds of unique idiots. If you understand you are one kind of idiot and the other are different kind, you will be   understand their nonsense because you know you got your stuff. 

If you think you're perfect and God has chosen you and he's made another perfect person somewhere else, then you're heading for a disaster. There is no such a thing. 

Even you know people today after 5000 years people are still adulting and worshipping krishna as a greatest lover but his wives are dead unhappy with the guy. 

So you're not going to find any perfect person.
If you invest deep sense of involvement, something wonderful may happen, its becoz your involvement. Not becoz other person is fantastic,No even if you choose a fool - actually it's easy that way. If they are not stupid why would they come to you first of all😅
Even if you choose a fool doesn't matter, of you involve yourself, it can turn out very beautiful.
You choose the smartest person in the universe, it could be a disaster. 

So do not think in turms of you know whatever this " made for each other" nonsense.
No you choose opposite actually but after some time you slowly start expecting they're just be like you. This is a serious mistake.

Bcoz if one more person becomes just like you you won't be able to bear with them for two days.. you're glad they are different. Its worderful nobody is like you. Nobody is like you on this planet, and that's good. Don't look for sameness not necessary. Its the difference which makes the...bcoz of the difference you tango,not otherwise.