3 Ways To Ruin A Relationship

You think getting in relationship is easy, I  mean it is, the hard part is losing it.

Relationship can be very difficult and I thought otherwise till I clued into realisation to spending your life with someone. You're entire life with someone. You don't have your own bedroom, bathroom,your clothes,your food anymore.You don't have your dignity.. actually it is gone. Your life - shared with someone.

Don't worry, that's scares me too, but the happy realization of it is someone that you love. Someone that is going to make these things worth sharing.

So now you have that little hope in relationship again, let me crash it.
Bcoz ruining a relationship is preety easy in theory but hard on everyone. so how you do it.

1. Kill the fun
One of the best part about dating and finding someone new, trying new things, exploring, adventuring and playing games and doing a whole bunch of stuff that's get you really excited.
Well the one day where you find yourself crashing ideas before they come to life, is the day you breaking your relationship a little more.
I understand that people go through rough times, but think about this like a dog that wants to play. You throw the balls once, the dog will keep coming back. As you stop throwing the ball over and over again and saying no. They begin to realise that you are not their resource for happiness and fun. They need to move on. And the exact same thing with the people.

2. You stop arguing
I know right off the bat, arguing in relationship can be a bad thing and obviously it can be. But there is also a bright side to it., The reason it happens bcoz you both care. So the day you stop defending what you like your opinion, you're morals, you're values is the day you stopped trying. Having that conversation, raising your voices, having that guilt trip afterwords and feeling bad.
Well, if you don't feel that, then you're been long gone.

3. You started to try and impress them
This one seems like a good thing. But don't worry I will ruined it.
Impressing someone is a great thing, but what do you do when you get the person? When you have accomplished a goal of loving someone and getting that person to love you back.
After all the special dates and special first movements and trying to convince this person that you are the one for them. These surprises these amazing adventures someone falling in love with you and finally you get it. So what now,,,? All you are doing is just trying and trying over and over again.

Can you guess what happened next?🤔
Your partner is going to get tired, annoyed, and go back to the number 1 on above list.

They will probably try to kill the fun. Which sounds like a cycle. But in order to stop it and overcome number 3. All you have to do is "BE  YOU".
Your partner fell in love with you for who you are. Yes you did improve them. But the 1st impression wasn't about how smooth you were,, it was everything about who you are.
And by constantly trying to be something you're not, you're slowly pushing them away from you.

So I guess, what I'm trying to say in order to ruin a relationship,, you will basically have to have moved on yourself and changed who you are. And that doesn't always mean it is bad. Ending relationship or moving on isn't always bad thing. Sometimes it is a best thing and most important step into finding someone to spend the rest of your life with....or finding a happier YOU.
Yes they require work, but all your really need to do is stay you and stay beautiful and you will do just fine.
JUST NEVER STOP LOVING ♥️